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April 02, 2010

Decades before Kinsey, Clelia Mosher surveyed the sex lives of Victorian women

STANFORD Magazine: March/April 2010 > Features > Clelia Mosher She interviewed many, many women asking qualitative questions but ended up burying her report. It was recently uncovered in the Standford archives. The gist of is this: Victorian ladies got their corseted freak on a lot, felt guilty about it. But she accomplished much more than that. She pioneered many studies, did amazing things. Please read this article, it's kind of amazing.
. . . Degler nearly put it aside, figuring it was a manuscript for one of Mosher's published works, mostly statistical treatises on women's height, strength and menstruation. But instead, he recalls, "I opened it up and there were these questionnaires"— questionnaires upon which dozens of women, most born before 1870, had inscribed their most intimate thoughts. In other words, it was a sex survey. A Victorian sex survey. It is the earliest known study of its type, long preceding, for example, the 1947 and 1953 Kinsey Reports, whose oldest female respondents were born in the 1890s. The Mosher Survey recorded not only women's sexual habits and appetites, but also their thinking about spousal relationships, children and contraception. Perhaps, it hinted, Victorian women weren't so Victorian after all. . . . Slightly more than half of these educated women claimed to have known nothing of sex prior to marriage; the better informed said they'd gotten their information from books, talks with older women and natural observations like "watching farm animals." Yet no matter how sheltered they'd initially been, these women had—and enjoyed—sex. Of the 45 women, 35 said they desired sex; 34 said they had experienced orgasms; 24 felt that pleasure for both sexes was a reason for intercourse; and about three-quarters of them engaged in it at least once a week. Unlike Mosher's other work, the survey is more qualitative than quantitative, featuring open-ended questions probing feelings and experiences. "She's actually asking these questions not about physiology or mechanics—she's really asking about sexual subjectivity and the meaning of sex to women," Freedman says. Their responses were often mixed. Some enjoyed sex but worried that they shouldn't. One slept apart from her husband "to avoid temptation of too frequent intercourse." Some didn't enjoy sex but faulted their partner. Mosher writes: [She] "Thinks men have not been properly trained." . . .
*via Violet Blue*

March 18, 2010

How the Hell Did We Fail to Post this Sooner?

I personally apologize for the oversight. YouTube - Today Show...

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March 16, 2010

Porn is good for you

Pornography: Beneficial or Detrimental? | Psychology Today And another article looks at statistics of porn use by sex offenders and finds that rapists used porn *less* often than non-rapists. Additionally they find "What does correlate highly with sex offense is a strict, repressive religious upbringing. Richard Green too has reported that both rapists and child molesters use less pornography than a control group of “normal” males."
"Indeed, the data reported and reviewed suggests that the thesis is myth and, if anything, there is an inverse causal relationship between an increase in pornography and sex crimes. Further, considering the findings of studies of community standards and wide spread usage of SEM [sexually explicit material], it is obvious that in local communities as nationally and internationally, porn is available, widely used and felt appropriate for voluntary adult consumption. If there is a consensus against pornography it is in regard to any SEM that involves children or minors in its production or consumption. Lastly we see that objections to erotic materials are often made on the basis of supposed actual, social or moral harm to women. No such cause and effect has been demonstrated with any negative consequence." . . . In their survey of 688 young Danish adults (men = 316; women = 372), Hald and Malamuth found that respondents construed the viewing of hardcore pornography as beneficial to their sex lives, their attitudes towards sex, their perceptions and attitudes towards members of the opposite sex, toward life in general, and over all. The obtained beneficial effects were statistically significant for all but one measure across both sexes. Now here is the kicker: A positive correlation was obtained between the amount of hardcore pornography that was viewed and the impact of the benefits reaped. This positive correlation was found for both sexes. In other words, the more that one watched porn, the stronger the benefits (for both sexes)! There you have it.

March 04, 2010

Photo Gallery: The 40 most sexual photos from the Olympics

The 40 Most Sexual Photos From The Olympics | Best Week Ever *Via Violet Blue*

March 03, 2010

Weird Al has a sex tape!

December 28, 2009

Photo Gallery: Penny Arcade's Dickerdoodles

Dickerdoodles 2009 (NSFW)

November 17, 2009

Having Trouble Pinning Down Precisely What's so Suggestive About This

Guess it's just one of those "know it when I...